Forgiveness: Seventy Times Seven | Rev. Adam Hamilton | Church of the Resurrection

About this sermon

In this second part of the Forgiveness series, Pastor Adam explores what forgiveness really looks like in intimate relationships—especially in marriage. Using a powerful metaphor of a backpack filled with rocks, he illustrates how the small and large offenses we carry build up over time, weighing us down emotionally and spiritually. From minor annoyances like messy habits or overlooked preferences to deep wounds like betrayal, each "rock" is a choice: carry it or let it go. Pastor Adam also shares insights from a church-wide survey revealing that while many struggle to forgive others, most people—nearly 89%—struggle most with forgiving themselves. He highlights key causes of conflict in relationships like poor communication, unmet expectations, and broken trust, and explains how these tensions can quietly erode love when left unresolved. He also speaks honestly about infidelity and other major wounds, reminding us that even in the most painful circumstances, healing is still possible through grace, repentance, and hard work. From this message, you’ll learn practical steps to begin letting go of resentment and embracing forgiveness—starting with remembering your own shortcomings, assuming the best in others, praying for those who hurt you, and seeking to understand. You’ll discover that forgiveness isn’t a one-time act but a rhythm of grace, essential for love to survive and thrive. And most importantly, you'll see how true repentance—metanoia, a change of mind and heart—can open the door to healing and reconciliation. If you’ve ever struggled with forgiveness in a relationship—or even in forgiving yourself—this message is for you. Watch now and discover how letting go can lead to freedom, peace, and a deeper kind of love. Highlights: [0:00] - Welcome [0:34] - Reading of Scripture [1:40] - Intro Video [2:19] - Sermon Intro: Are You Struggling to Forgive? [5:12] - Forgiveness in Relationships [12:36] - What Six Words Could Save Up Your Marriage [14:17] - From Stone Counters To Grace Givers [15:28] - R.A.P.S. [17:38] - Survey Results [22:32] - The Big Rocks [25:00] - It’s Easier To Forgive But Difficult To Ask For Forgiveness [28:01] - Jesus Talks About Forgiveness [30:52] - How Many Times Should I Forgive? [32:32] - Officer Mike Mosher’s Story [37:40] - Conclusion [39:28] - Closing Prayer [40:07] - Thank You For Watching Visit our website: https://resurrection.church/ Connect with us on social media! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/weareresurrection Twitter: https://x.com/umcresurrection Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/resurrectionumc/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ChurchoftheResurrection Learn more from us at https://resurrection.church/next #ResurrectionAUnitedMethodistChurch #SeventyTimesSeven #HowToForgive

Topics

• Forgiveness
• Church & Fellowship
• Resurrection
• The Church