Dismantling Toxic Masculinity Toward Better Sex with Sex Coach and Therapist Cam Fraser

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For this episode of the Sex series, we’re getting some adult sex education we wished we had learned when we were younger. Specifically around messages young men received around sex, and how this now manifests with toxic masculinity which unfortunately, seeps into the bedroom. Our guest today helps us find ways we can change these sexual narratives. While not all of us are in sexual relationships with men, the reality is that the way in which men perceive their status in the bedroom affects their roles outside of the bedroom. And when toxic masculinity is driving that inner monologue, we all lose. So today we’re addressing the ways this can affect us all, not only the cis hetero men in our lives. A licensed sex coach and therapist, Cam Fraser teaches sex education for cis hetero men and their partners. As someone who has been hurt by unhealthy masculine culture, he’s passionate about changing toxic masculine narratives that affect us all, and freeing men up to be the fully realized humans they are longing to be (whether they know it or not). In this episode, Cam and Jen discuss: • Ideas on how to start conversations with your partner about sex • Desire discrepancies in relationships and the difference between responsive and spontaneous libido • Taking responsibility for your own arousal • The spectrum of intimacy inside and outside the bedroom • Unhealthy sexual narratives that feed toxic masculinity * * * Thank you to our sponsors! ➤ Betterhelp | Visit BetterHelp.com/ForTheLove to get 10% off your first month ➤ Thirdlove | Visit ThirdLove.com/forthelove and get 20% off your first order #ForTheLove #ForTheLovePodcast #JenHatmaker _________ CHECK OUT Resources Mentioned in This Episode: ➤ https://savage.love/ ➤https://jenhatmaker.com/podcast/series-02/getting-vulnerable-with-dr-brene-brown/ ➤https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eYmFyjy2EmQ CONNECT with Our Guest! ➤ Website: https://cam-fraser.com/ ➤ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thecamfraser2.0 ➤ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thecamfraser/ ___ ➤ JEN HATMAKER BOOK CLUB - Join the sisterhood! https://jenhatmakerbookclub.com ___ WATCH more videos from Jen: ➤ For the Love of Small Wins series: https://bit.ly/FTLsmallwins ➤ For the Love of The Enneagram series: https://bit.ly/FTLenneagram ➤ Happy Hour: http://bit.ly/JensHappyHour ➤ Monday Mornings with Jen: http://bit.ly/MondayMorningsJen ___ CONNECT with Jen! ➤ FOLLOW Jen on Instagram: https://instagram.com/jenhatmaker ➤ FOLLOW Jen on Twitter: https://twitter.com/jenHatmaker/ ➤ LIKE Jen on Facebook: https://facebook.com/jenhatmaker ➤ SUBSCRIBE NOW on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/JenHatmaker?sub_confirmation=1 ➤ VISIT: http://jenhatmaker.com/ ___ For more “For the Love” . . . ➤ SUBSCRIBE on Apple Podcasts: http://bit.ly/FTLPodcastApple ➤ LISTEN on Spotify: http://bit.ly/FTLPodcastSpotify ➤ HEAR IT on Stitcher: http://bit.ly/FTLPodcastStitcher ➤ LISTEN on iHeartRadio: http://bit.ly/FTLPodcastiHeart